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October 17th, 2016
Sexual Communication

Communicating our needs in general can be tough, communicating our sexual needs can be even tougher…

It can be hard to let a lover know how you want to be touched, what feels really good to you, and things you want to explore.
It is especially hard when you’ve become accustom to a certain sexual pattern with your partner, and now you want to shake things up.
You don’t want your lover to think you’ve not be satisfied all this time.
However, the only constant in life is change, and this is true for all things.
Everything either expands and grows, or withers and dies.
It’s normal in growth and expansion to want to keep trying new things, and have the things that really excite you to change.
While it can be hard to let the person you love know that you want to change something up sexually, it doesn’t have to be threatening or critical.
Start with sharing all that you still enjoy, and then move into asking for more of what you would like to invite and experiment with.
The less you judge yourself and your partner, the easier it will be for you to be heard, and your partner to feel excited with you in expanding this aspect of your relationship…

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